If You Back Out of a Waxhaw Home Purchase, Who Keeps Your Money?

In North Carolina, the due diligence fee goes to the seller and you usually don't get it back if you cancel. Your earnest money is a separate deposit, and in many cases you can get it back if you cancel on time.

Quick Answer: When you buy a home in Waxhaw, you may pay two deposits: a due diligence fee, paid to the seller, and earnest money, held by a neutral escrow agent. According to the North Carolina Real Estate Commission, if a buyer ends the contract during the due diligence period, the seller keeps the due diligence fee. Jennifer Ledford of The Ledford Group at eXp Realty says to check your own contract for the exact refund terms, because deadlines decide who keeps what.

I'm Jennifer Ledford with The Ledford Group at eXp Realty, and I guide first-time buyers across Waxhaw and Union County. Buyers often ask me about this before they sign anything, and that's the right time to ask. This is general information, not legal advice, so ask a real estate attorney about your own contract.

What is the due diligence fee?

It's money you pay to the seller for taking the home off the market while you check it out. The amount is negotiated in your offer. You pay it directly to the seller, usually when the contract is signed.

If the sale closes, the seller credits that fee to you at closing. If you cancel during the due diligence period, the seller keeps it. The Real Estate Commission says it's generally not refundable.

What is earnest money?

Earnest money is a deposit that shows you're serious. A neutral escrow agent holds it in a trust account, and it's not paid to the seller. If the sale closes, it's applied to your costs at closing.

The amount is also negotiated in your offer.

What happens if I cancel during the due diligence period?

The due diligence period is your window to inspect the home, review the numbers, and decide. In the standard North Carolina form, you can usually cancel for any reason before it ends. In that case you typically get your earnest money back, and the seller keeps the due diligence fee.

Your contract has the exact wording, so read that part with me. The date and time your period ends matter, and the notice has to be given the way the contract says.

What happens if I cancel after it ends?

This is where buyers get hurt. After the period ends, you can only cancel for the reasons your contract allows, such as a financing or appraisal contingency. A law firm's guide to NC contracts warns that if the contract isn't contingent on appraisal or financing, you could be obligated to close even if the appraisal is low.

If you back out for a reason the contract doesn't cover, the seller may have a claim to your earnest money. That's why I never let a client guess at a deadline.

When do you get everything back?

The Real Estate Commission lists a few situations where a buyer may get both back. These include a seller's material breach, a seller who materially fails to meet certain contract duties, and damage to the property before closing. An addendum can also add refund terms.

Those are exceptions, so don't plan around them.

What if the seller and I disagree about the money?

An escrow agent can't hand it to one side on request. When a dispute happens, the agent generally needs both parties' agreement or a legal process. That can take time. The best defense is clear contract language and a calendar of your dates.

What should I do before I make an offer in Waxhaw?

Ask your agent and lender these questions. How much are the due diligence fee and earnest money in this offer? When does the period end, to the hour? Is the contract contingent on appraisal and financing? Who is the escrow agent?

Then plan your inspections right away. A short period isn't the time to wait on a home inspector. In Waxhaw, many buyers are drawn to Downtown Waxhaw's Main Street, with places like Mary O'Neill's Irish Pub and the Saturday farmers market. That's a good reason to love a town. It shouldn't be the reason you skip a step.

If you're buying your first home, call me at 704-607-6996. I'll walk you through the dates before you sign, so nothing surprises you.

Frequently asked questions

Is the due diligence fee refundable in North Carolina? Generally no. The North Carolina Real Estate Commission says the seller keeps it if the buyer cancels during the due diligence period. It can be refunded in limited cases, such as a seller's material breach.

Is earnest money refundable in North Carolina? It depends on your contract. In the standard form, you typically get it back if you cancel before the due diligence period ends. After that, you need a reason your contract allows.

Who holds earnest money in a North Carolina home purchase? A neutral escrow agent named in your contract holds it in a trust account. The seller doesn't receive it unless the contract allows.

What happens if the appraisal comes in low? It depends on your contract. If it includes an appraisal contingency, you may have options. If it doesn't, you could be required to close.

About Jennifer Ledford: Jennifer Ledford is a licensed real estate agent with The Ledford Group at eXp Realty LLC, serving buyers and sellers across Mecklenburg, Union, Stanly, and York Counties since 2016. She is among the top 3% of 18,000+ agents in the Charlotte Metro, an eXp ICON, and has guided 250+ clients through some of the most significant transactions of their lives. Reach her at 704-607-6996 or https://the-ledford-group.com.

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